Virginia’s mom wasn’t happy her daughter was getting married. In fact, she wore dark sunglasses during the entire ceremony, even in pictures. Years later, Virginia realized that there was something her mom was trying to communicate about love — something very important. It’s a lesson that can be tough, but it’s essential to any deep, lasting relationship. Especially for those who have been burned by love.

Virginia’s mom wasn’t happy her daughter was getting married. In fact, she wore dark sunglasses during the...